A Special Day!!!

It is with tremendous pride I share this special event in our family....my mother has reached a wonderful milestone...She is 80 years old today and we are celebrating together with my three sisters in Paris!   I am excited to share this buying trip with my wonderful Mother...THE ORIGINAL SHOPPER! Shopping antiques shows with my Mom was my first exposure and I have her to thank for peaking my interest in this world that has become such a complete joy in my life.  We would walk the antique shows and she would pick up some random indistinguishable item and be able to tell me exactly what it was used for long before she was born. Her explanations to me always included great stories of how people worked, the scenarios explained around the actual item and I drank in each historical point.  From marrow spoons to cherry pitters she still is the "life line" choice in our extended family when someone needs to know the answer to something, ANYTHING!!!.....she rarely is stumped!  She taught me how to negotiate best pricing and the excitement, the history and beauty in the world of antiques. Little June... She was a talented artist and pianist.....I remember lying underneath the piano while she played and played at home... Pictured here at college with my Grandmother...she then went on to become a medical technologist. Such a cutie! Harder to believe than my mother becoming 80 is that in June my parents will be married for 60 YEARS!!!  She should be canonized! I just love this picture....I think it's a Graduation party.  My Dad is holding the yearbook with his pipe and bowtie as my Mom looks on to the right.  So glamorous, love her poise!  Notice the beer on the table is in a pilsner glass.....such class, even outdoors....much better then SOLO cups, no? In going through pictures there were so many of "committee ladies"and my mother (on the left) always had the same pose.  Long before the red carpet "hand on hip" she knew how to pose for a picture and I remember her telling us how to put our one foot forward and tip our shoulder back....so funny!  She volunteered for endless committees and fundraisers....a terrific hostess, totally organized.  She was and is not only the best cook but everything she was in charge of was a dramatic feast for the eyes as well. She taught me how to commit fully to something and give it 100%.  She always said "if it's worth doing...it's worth doing right!". She has continued her involvement in the community by volunteering at the hospital each week and , although her job is checking in visitors, she manages to keep the folks there on their toes! She and her friends had great times every Saturday night and I remember how exciting it was for me to watch her get ready!  She always laid my father's clothes out first and then she would get dressed.  (after washing and setting our heads in sponge rollers) This was a light green and taupe silk strapless. (my parents are seated at the far right).  She and my Grandmother would go all over shopping for clothes (before Malls).  Sometimes if a shop all the way in Connecticut was having a great sale they would make the trek in addition to regular jaunts into the city.  She taught me that thrill of the hunt!  She would fly through a store with her hand waving behind her "come on, keep up!" she would say to us. (I'm like that now! LOL!)   We never stopped for lunch as it was business, not a social event or an all day excursion as she had to get back to manage something and ALWAYS have a terrific meal waiting for my Father.   She scored the greatest finds, always pointing out to me the subtlest of details.....she would comment on how light the organdy lace was,  a small pin tuck, how the seams were finished on the inside, too.  It was never about price but always about quality and how the smallest detail made all the difference. We had weekly treks to Loehmann's discount apparel store (when they had great things) where the saleswomen knew her by name and would hold for her what they knew she would like.  She never labored over things, knew just what she wanted.  She would even indulge me when I asked her to try on the glitziest dress covered in feathers and spangles. My parents hosted many parties including this Halloween party...Mom is the French maid on the right.  This is the only time I had a store bought costume ...I think they were busy.  (that's me in front).  I used to jump around the house as I was a cheerleader for a million years.  She would be making dinner while I was slapping and stamping looking at my reflection in the double ovens.  LOL! She never stopped me or made me feel like cheerleading was silly or unproductive.  Not a stage mom, she didn't butt in, but she spent many hours sitting alone reading on the bleachers while we yelled and practiced our routines over and over.  I would sometimes say "mom, how was that?".  Her response was always "GREAT!!" I don't know WHAT went on here as she wasn't in beauty pageants (although she could have been ) I remember her getting dressed for this flapper party at the club. She is in front center sideways on the floor. I was in her bathroom when she was penciling on that beauty mark....I think I was 6 years old but thought WOW!!  That is chic!!   She smoked at the time, of course, and had a cigarette holder with rhinestones!  No, that's not a tattoo on her leg but stockings with flocking! Apparently she didn't teach my father how to stand for a photo....cancel that, she probably did and he resisted! She would always place my derby hat cocked a little....the details! As you can tell the right outfit was a big part of our lives.... My parents in the center flanked by my Grandparents.. Love the pointy bra. Her coat was this wonderful pink  boucle.....I'm  not happy for some reason...could it be the hat that probably had that dreadful elastic band digging into my neck?? My grandmother knit these sweaters and hats and my mother added vintage pins on each....I must say most of the pictures with my sisters are just three of us as my youngest sister was born 12 years after I was when we were gawky teens refusing to have pictures taken... I had never seen corn husks on the front porch before she placed them here one Halloween in the 1950's...She put endless energy and time into our home for the Holidays.  I don't  have a picture, but she and my Grandfather would construct magnificent Christmas decorations completely transforming our home, especially the outside.  It changed each year and the results were always unbelievable and tasteful.  She would decide sometimes to have a themed Christmas tree ....once was all pink and silver,  another year reds, etc.  She took such pride in the holidays for us but never fussed when we had our own ideas,  for example when my sister's Michael Jackson doll was the tree topper....I just LOVED that about my Mom that it wasn't about her, but she could bend and yield easily.  When we had our own families, arriving back home on Christmas Eve still held the magic of years past because of all the love she put into the celebration.  We even had slipcovered chairs!  These were seafoam green chinoiserie with a wonderful trim... She taught each of us how to be assertive but never rude.  To stand up straight and hold your stomach in, to look people in the eye and smile.  We would come into the kitchen during our grundgy overalls years and she would say "you need a little lipstick", snort! Lipstick!!  She never stopped trying.. or she would say "put some alcohol on that thing".   A truly strong woman, she taught us to care deeply for our families and, most importantly, each other.  The fact that my sisters and I all live within a half mile of each other is a testament to her value of family and teaching us that nothing is more important than the harmony and the civility of family.  She was and is a very strong, yet sensitive woman, never a shrinking violet and people loved her wit and her ability to get her hands dirty and her hair wet!   My Mother always did her own hair and nails and I LOVED that she didn't look like all the other mothers.  (she never teased her hair)  One time I came home and asked my Dad where Mom was and he replied "she's out with her cotton candy friends". (above) Food was and is very important in our lives...the family meal is the culmination of the day and always seems like a celebration when my mother is involved in the preparation.  When their house in Florida was being built my parents stayed with us when my kids were in high school.  Mom would leave my sons' games early enough to get home to finalize the prep of our meals.  Midweek we had gourmet feasts to come home to with parsley sprinkled around the plate rims, lemon wedges, etc. This is why sometimes at 7:30 AM I can be found sautéing something for dinner before I leave for the shop.  She couldn't understand how ladies would get to the food store at 5pm to decide "what's for dinner?" We tease each other when we are away together and at breakfast we say "so what are we having for dinner?".  We have learned to always have a plan.  This picture above was taken to send to a distant relative and we, of course, had to pan out to include the chickens on the rotisserie!  Comical!! A familiar shot very often includes food...Danielle with a gigantic lobster! The most important thing my Mother has shared is how to have fun and not to take yourself too seriously.  She would emphatically let her feelings be known to us but she would also realize when she had to yield.She always welcomed our friends into our home......even now in looking back, I realize that we brought some questionable characters home with us.  It didn't matter, there was always enough food and plenty of room. She knew the most important thing was we were together and during our teens and twenties she took pride in knowing our friends and those important to us.  It was customary in my home that, long after we broke up with our boyfriends,  they would still come by the house to see my parents. She created the wonderful balance of making them feel very welcome but never crossing the line.  There was never mistaking her for being the adult in charge. She never criticized my friends to me but a daily site was seeing her with her rosary beads and her well worn Novena book! She was also known to bury statues in the backyard and keep them there until something she was praying for happened, OR DIDN'T!!! The silliness they shared and still share together is a wonderful gift.  She made these "luggage markers" for each of us a couple of  years ago and we teased her mercilessly that she took them back and said they would wear them instead!  She was on Facebook  before I was to keep in touch with her Grandchildren, she taught me how to email pictures years ago and rises to the advancement of the latest technology.  She has always sat with instructions and "figured it out"!  She takes weekly Italian lessons.  I laughed a couple of months ago when she was lamenting "I can't believe none of my classmates are on Facebook, they can't all be DEAD!".    We had to remind her she was 80 years old.  Dressed for Halloween again... She has accepted all the stages of aging with grace and a sense of humor....a trait I need to remind myself of regularly. She knows what to fight for and what there is no use lamenting over.  For years she slept with a hand held fan, a bottle of seltzer and baby powder to deal with night sweats!  Here she is visiting me, years ago, sleeping on the sofa with the powder close by.  She never complains... She relishes being a Grandmother and a Great Grandmother.  She spent a few winters at her new home in Florida but moved back to New Jersey because she was bored and missed everyone too much.  She is in charge of donating filled backpacks to needy children and collecting funds for holiday gifts.  I always love how she puts her thoughtful touches on things by including something special in a zipped pocket as an unexpected surprise .  For the past 2 years she has knitted hats for our troops in Afghanistan and, never resisting a chance to spread a chuckle, included a note in each one saying "don't forget to duck!"  LOL! This pic is from my wedding 16 years ago. My mother is on the right and my Grandmother is in front with my sisters and me.  At her birthday celebration the other night my Mother told us " 80 is the new 60" and I have no doubt this number will not slow her down.  She also has plans on reaching 100!   She is a force, creating good times with those lucky enough to be around her.  She is intelligent and fun loving.  I always loved how she could comfortably connect with a street sweeper or the Queen of Denmark.  I adore her and am so very fortunate to continue to be inspired by her and wish her the very best birthday .....We are so blessed! Xoxo.   Thank you to everyone who read this tribute, it was very important to me to share it with all of you, I owe my Mother so much.   I am treasure hunting in France right now and will be back on business track when I return.....Mom would definitely want it that way! Warmest regards, Bonny    Bonny Neiman Antiques & Artisan  p.973-714-4541 www.bonnyneiman.com    Trouvaille 12 Beechwood Road  Summit, NJ Monday-Saturday 10-5:30

Trunks

I have always liked a nice trunk....two things I LOVE ...History and romance!  I think it's from all those old movies I watched when I was young where someone was creeping upstairs to the attic to open an old trunk full of intriguing heirlooms.  It's the history that fascinates, of course, as traces of generations have often been passed down in an old trunk that no one can part with.  Whether it was packed to cross the Atlantic with dreams of prosperity or as a "hope chest" collecting future heirlooms by a romantic young lady, antique trunks hold special stories.   Who doesn't love the site of all those precious gems dripping out of a pirates treasure chest?  Remember Aunt Pitty Pat throwing the silver in her trunk when they were rushing out of Atlanta in Gone With the Wind?? I wonder where that trunk is?   I know the silver is all dented.  Anyway, I really wanted to mention using them in today's home.....they add wonderful interest and, definitely, a conversation piece.... A good size trunk can stand alone or anchor a nice piece of art as in the picture above.   Many nice white accent pieces are also available for bookcases, as mentioned in several blogs and pictured here.  I "borrowed " this favorite picture from Brooke Giannetti.  Her beautiful blog Velvet And Linen very often seems to make my point. Please check my favorite blog list further down on the left.  It's an easy way to gain inspiration.  Cote de Texas always has valuable info and a pleasure to read. An interesting trunk works as a charming bedside table. The curve of a dome top trunk  adds a nice dimension to this modern bedroom. This dome top dark wood and iron trunk adds needed warmth in this all white bedroom. This wicker trunk tones down all the bright colors while adding texture...the old and new contrast in this picture is really appealing. Mostly all white room again...love the dark trunk and floors and, of course, the brick fireplace. GREAT leather chair, love a round mirror (available), interesting wall color,  nice geometric rug and, of course...the trunk! The ultimate trunk...an antique Louis Vuitton, monogrammed no less. evoking exotic travels aboard a luxury steamliner across the globe.... If they only could talk and tell the tale... This botanical art looks more important with the distressed trunk underneath.....great storage too! A modern room.  With the look of all neutrals an antique trunk adds needed contrast.  If a new dark piece were chosen here instead of the trunk, the room would appear cold.  It still appears a little cold for me....I would replace the floor lamp with an antique one and add a throw to the left sofa. Available ... Dome Top 19th Century Trunk with iron mounts BELGIUM Inv. 83, h 24 w 48.5 d 21.25 $1,795.00 Large Antique Wicker Basket with leather straps FRANCE $525.00 Inv. 103, H 19.75 w 38 d 25 Vintage Trunk in Layered Wood adding wonderful interest with its unique color and pattern Inv. 28, h 11.75 w. 30 d 13.5 $295.00 19th Century Grain Painted Blanket Chest, American Inv. 43, h 19 w 36 d 18 $585.00 SUNDAY NIGHT SALE  It sort of looks like a trunk.  A nice antique distressed hand tooled leather stationery box. This Italian piece originally had a lid but there is enough detail at the top that you will never miss it. h-6  1/2, w 9  3/4,  d 5  retail $285.00. SUNDAY NIGHT SALE $85.00 You can see it is decorated with hand painted panels and a touch up to the back top border First person to email me, gets it!  Good luck and buyer pays shipping.  Also a few announcements.  The month of May will be VERY busy for me as I will be away on 2 buying trips including a special trip to Belgium and France sooooo, put your orders in for what you are wishing for. Many thanks to Stacy for including me in her latest post and also mentioning me in her feature in Better Homes and Garden (not yet released) Please stop by the Red Door Home blog and check out Stacy's blog and online store. Really beautiful things and also other nice blogs she lists will inspire and give you a stress break as the pictures are gorgeous! Come see  our new window display and the many new additions to the shop.  We would love to see you and give you our usual "royal treatment"!   Delivery available everywhere....... Warmest regards, Bonny    Bonny Neiman Antiques & Artisan  p.973-714-4541 www.bonnyneiman.com    Trouvaille 12 Beechwood Road  Summit, NJ Monday-Saturday 10-5:30

NEW WEB POSTINGS AND SUNDAY NIGHT SALE!!

I hope you all had a wonderful Easter, Passover or just a happy start to Spring! We had a delicious beautiful brunch at my sister's.  She and my brother in law put together a mouth watering menu. My sister Nicole is so very creative, her table looked like Mr. McGregor's garden decorated with multi-layered mosses and lettuce plants she will plant in her own garden.    Bunnies and eggs trailed the extended table and I think I did see Peter Rabbit behind the napkins she folded into bunnies. We ended the day playing capture the flag and the adults were still limping two days later. The weather is just glorious today in the east and I have finally gotten a chance to sit outside and enjoy.    Sweet lamb carrot cake with edible grass.... I thought you would enjoy some pictures of the shop which has been buzzing.  We have been placing many upholstery orders mostly for those lucky folks with weekend homes. I think Nantucket must have cleared out with all the new residents we have been helping.  We have been planning neutral fabric combinations, with some blues and I am happy the line has many choices in tans and cream linens with different textures and tone on tone patterns to add interest.  The sofas come with pillows where we have been adding prints for pops of color in citrus and sherbet hues. Please note we discount 25% off retail prices. Offerings include upholstered headboards in every imaginable fabric, this one a tone on tone cream with a tawny gold nailhead.  The artisan iron bench at the foot, $895.00, will be featured at the Mansion in May Showhouse in Morristown and more are available.  The artisan orb chandelier comes in 2 sizes and gold or silver finish. I found this Swedish Mora clock in Belgium and just brought it to the shop. In Sweden in the 19th century many homes were not considered complete without the graceful form of one of these beauties.  Whenever their rooms were painted they painted all the furniture too in the same color which is why Swedish furniture often has many layers of paint in a beautiful crusty patina we love. First the homeowner would go to the clockmaker in town to have the works made, then they would take the clockworks to the cabinetmaker to have the case crafted to their specifications.  The face on this clock is signed by the clockmaker and sometimes the case is signed too. The marble top console, pictured is available for $810.00. I am in love with these 19th century lithograph portraits of French generals on thick arches paper I found in France.  I have about 12 more...they are priced $375.00 each and would look terrific  in groupings. These conversation pillows are fun gifts priced $28.00, $38.00 and $48.00. The Belgian dome top trunk is a great piece with iron mountings. Our Mary sofa has just been reduced for quick sale from $5330.00 to $2880.00. It is not only attractive but will stay that way as the slipcovers are washable linen....right in the washing machine! Everyone has been commenting on the beauty of this artisan cocktail table.  I have added it to my collection of artisan pieces for a couple of reasons....the light distressed finish of the iron base adds warmth and compliments a room of fresh upholstery and sisal.  The sphere form is current, softens the lines of modern furnishings and the marble is nice and thick and affordably priced at $1,350.00. For added interest and importance I brought in original antique maps including maps from Martha's Vineyard,  Cape Cod, Nantucket, Block Island, East Hampton and Long Island. I have an original aerial black and white framed photo of Loveladies showing how sparsely populated the area was at the time. Love this seating area with the oldest piece in the shop....a French table from the 17th century....$2,220.00 You can see the bottom of a vintage vertical Italian mirror on the wall, sold as a pair and an Italian Greek key side table. The light slipcovered loveseat in the back above has been marked down from $3810.00 to $1995.00. This multi sectioned art deco mirror is a new addition to the shop. Okay, I have this wonderful set of silk covered period Gustavian dining chairs....a set of 10!! They haven't sold and many of you have asked for 2 or 4.  The stripe is actually more grey than blue.  Well I have decided to split the set...eeeek, don't call the antiques police.  These were sold originally by Florian Papp in Manhattan for $45,000.00.  I can let them go for $1,700.00 pair. Chair close up SUNDAY NIGHT SALE !!!  This is a hotel silver food dome from the Hotel Taft in midtown Manhattan from its origin in 1926. I use my food domes, LOVE the drama of them!!  The dome is pitted and marked on the inside "Hotel Taft".  It retails for $275.00 and it's on sale for $55.00.  First person to EMAIL ME gets it.....buyer pays shipping. I am also really excited about the latest addition to my ready made window panels shown behind the dome.  This is natural linen with a dove white embroidery, fully lined.  Isn't it dreamy?  Pricing is for 50 inch wide by 96 $235.00 each and 50 wide by 108 for $265.00 Please email me if you have any questions or thoughts or need delivery information.  I am currently trying to put a truckload together for Texas so if you are an interested Texan, let me know.   Enjoy Springtime....xoxo Warmest regards, Bonny    Bonny Neiman Antiques & Artisan  p.973-714-4541 www.bonnyneiman.com    Trouvaille 12 Beechwood Road  Summit, NJ Monday-Saturday 10-5:30